My kiddo begins fifth grade in the fall of 2016. I am not ready for her to be this old! She is so independent and can self-manage most of her projects. She has expressed to me that she wants to homeschool. Her bestie of foreverandeverandever years is in her third (?) year of homeschool. JB is a bright young lady whose mother, KB, is such a great teacher that I completely understand Kiddo's desire to be taught the same way. They are both impressive people and my kiddo wants to try school the same way.
My husband and I have talked about the decision for a couple of years. At first we were both apprehensive. We were held back by the old "they wont learn to be social and will be odd kids" argument. That stood as a good argument until we saw how public school was affecting her. As time went on and we saw our school adoring child grow more and more upset with going to school, we began to warm to the idea of being taught at home. As with every family decision, we started a pros and cons list.
I am a stay at home mom and artist so my available time will allow for the commitment.
We can travel and take school with us.
We are more aware of what she is learning so that we can be fully supportive when she needs help.
Kiddo can finish her work at her pace and not be held back by classmates or forced to hurry.
She can work in her pajamas or Halloween costume, if she chooses, and not be held to a dress code that (I feel) constricts her adventurous and colorful personality.
She can have pink hair if she wants.
Homemade lunch each day.
No bullies, lockdowns, bomb threats to be concerned over. (Unless I really tick off the neighbors! lol)
She can spend time with her father whose work schedule is time consuming, her great grandparents who adore her, and herself. (She complains of having too little "alone time" because she is always busy at school, doing homework, getting ready for bed, or sleeping.)
Time. We will have a better grasp on how much time out of the day she actually learns and how much is wasted shuffling through hallways, recesses, class changes, etc.
We can spend more time on subjects that she needs help with and less on those she masters quickly.
Parent teacher conferences happen daily over the dinner table.
We can have school on the porch or in the fort.
We can have field trips any time.
No school bus accidents without seat belts.
No lice from the classmate.
Less germs to contend with.
No attendance policies to contend with. Sick? Rest. (We can make that a reading day.)
We can watch documentaries with popcorn and pause it if anyone has to potty.
No sick days for Mom or Kiddo. (Within reason. Pukers don't have to do work.)
No substitute teachers.
No escaping a project because its time for another class. Must finish.
No classmates for recess.
No picture day or yearbook.
The dog cannot eat your homework.
Fees, books, and curriculum costs. (Wait... I pay those anyway throughout the year.)
No set structure... oh, wait... we set that ourselves dependent upon what she needs to learn to the best of her abilities
As you can see, my pros list is longer.
I didn't even mention on that list how priceless my pal, KB is with this homeschooling adventure. She has muddled through any difficulties and paved the way. I get to walk down the path avoiding most hurdles and puddles because she has already been there and left a road map. I feel fortunate to have her. So, in my list of "Things You Need to Homeschool" please pay close attention to the need for a KB in your life.
I hope that keeping this blog will keep me inspired and on track with this change in our lives. I know it will be a wonderful experience. I also know I will have bad days. She will stomp, pout, push my buttons, and slam doors before we find a rhythm that works for both of us. But I also know that I will never give up on trying to give her all that she needs to succeed in life and be ever curious and always learning. I also hope that someone might find some kernel of assistance in this blog that I have found in the goldmines of info I have gleaned from KB.
In my next post, I hope to have the list of what I require to make this work. There will also be a sprinkle of "Is this going to make her weird?" and a smidgen of "Can I really do this?" along with the ever present load of "AM I DOING THE RIGHT THING AS A PARENT??" Please don't be scared by those thoughts. I have the same thoughts when I buy her new boots knowing she hates socks, when I agree to hand stitch her Halloween costume the week before Halloween, or when I buy a video game that she promises wont take over but totally does (Thanks, Minecraft, for being my child's first drug. You are the most ridiculously addicting video game for her and I cannot understand why.) I will never stop questioning if I did the best thing for her because, since I heard her heartbeat through a stethoscope from my belly, that's been the most important question in my life.
So, feel free to follow along with our adventure. Comment any time. I am doing this with her best interest in mind, but I don't have all the answers yet. I am going to be learning each day alongside her, so I will appreciate any info that teaches me along the way.
Mom of 1